How to Feel Confident in a New Relationship

Are you starting a new relationship? Well, we can all agree that it always feels exciting and fun at first!But most times, things tend to take a big turn when you start getting more serious. With every date, you go on, and the more people get involved, including your parents and friends, you somehow lose yourself-confidence. This can affect you significantly if your wounds from your past relationship have not healed yet.

As the broken heart from a relationship that didn’t work out, you will easily compare your past to your new love interest. That can get in the way, and in no time, you may start feeling paranoid. But the good thing is that all is not lost. You can rebuild your confidence in your new relationship. New relationships tend to be very fragile. Besides being fresh, no history is biding you and your partner together.That means that new couples are more likely to make certain assumptions about their partners.However, if you build confidence in each other early in the relationship, you will get off to a better start than most people. With that in mind, in this article, we will look at some of the nitty-gritty that will help you feel confident in a new relationship. So, let’s get to it!

 

Please stay in the Present and Enjoy It

Most of the anxiety that people have in new relationships results from having a fixed end goal in mind when you get into a relationship. When you have specific set goals in mind, it will prompt you to create timelines for your partner.For instance, you may find that you are bugging your partner to commit too early in the relationship.This may either scare them away or draw them away from enjoying every moment in the relationship.On the other hand, someone who is confident in their relationship knows that it was never meant to be if it doesn’t work out. The good thing is that anyone can effortlessly embody this kind of confidence by embracing the mantra that whatever is meant for you cannot escape from you.

 

Do Things You Genuinely Enjoy with Your Partner

We can all agree; most couples have the most fun at the beginning of their relationship. So, instead of worrying about the relationship lasting, you should instead enjoy every minute you spend with your partner. Think of all the things you wished you had someone to do with. Now guess what?You have someone you can explore with and be a bit spontaneous together without being judged. When you focus on doing the things you like together, you will spend less time worrying. Fun makes sure you stay in the present and worry less about what the future holds. And that’s what you need in a new relationship.

 

Worry Less About Being Likeable and Impressionable

When we get into new relationships, we are always worried sick if the other person likes us. Sometimes, even going to extreme efforts to impress the people we are seeing. However, we should worry less about being likable and focus on seeing if your partner is the best match for you.Please don’t overlook the red flags in your partner while trying to impress them. Use these early stages of the relationship to gauge if the relationship is worth your time and energy. Also, don’t try too hard to change just to fit your partner’s interests and likes. There’s beauty in being yourself. So, don’t stop living your life to make someone else happy.Remember that you have the power to choose if your partner. Never feel helpless as you also can decide if the new person is the best person for you.

 

Work on Yourself and Be Your Biggest Fan

Early into any relationship, we tend to feel like we need our new partner’s validation in everything we do to feel worthy. However, if you want to be confident in your relationship, you must own your worth.Your self-worth cannot be attached to if your partner values you or not. Keep reminding yourself every time that you are amazing.You need to remind yourself that you love yourself from time to time. This is a powerful affirmation as a person who truly loves themselves will never fall apart no matter what other people say or think about them. At first, it may be hard to believe but say it again and again until you feel it when you say it.

 

Establish a Solid Friendship with Your Partner First

Besides looking at your partner as ‘The One,’ you need to see them as a friend first. That way, you will have different expectations about them and the relationship you are trying to build. When you have a solid friendship first with your partner, it will go a long way to building a solid foundation for your relationship. For instance, you will find that people are more likely to forgive their friends when they cross each other or make them angry. A solid foundation in friendship will make conflict resolution easier and go a long way in making your relationship last. If their heart is in the right place, you will automatically know. So, instead of beating yourself down about the things you can’t control, please get to know their good and bad qualities

 

In Summary

We all get very nervous when in a new relationship, and it’s completely normal. It can be hard to keep it cool when it comes to the people we love. However, it would be best to build confidence in your relationship, and it comes down to your mindset. The mind is mighty, and what you feed it is what it will register. So, if you register fear, then your mind will indeed highlight all your insecurities. But if you are confident and you have strong self-affirmations, you will remain secure. That will go a long way in helping you navigate the early days of your new relationship