We want to fall in love with the right guy at some point. And the most crucial part is for him to fall inlove with us too. Fortunately, there are specific tips you can use to make him fall for you faster. The minute you learn these techniques, you will instantly realize that it's pretty easy to make him fall for you. The best part about this process is that it's all-natural.
There's a subtle approach towards love that you should follow to ensure he falls for you in the right way and fast. So, without further ado, let's get to it!
Learn the art of patience.
I know this sounds contradictory to today's topic but hear me out first-there's beauty in being patient. If you've fallen for this particular guy, then I'm sure you're in a vulnerable place as you are waiting for him to fall for you if he hasn't already. And as such, you will do anything in your power to make him loveyou. However, if you rush things, you might blow everything off the roof. So, it would help if you pump the breaks a bit. Love comes to everyone at a different rate. Taking a breath should help put your situation into a clearer perspective, and you will also notice if he has feelings for you. Yes, that's right! Sometimes, a guy might have feelings for you, but he's taking too long to share his sentiment. And that's where a bit of patience comes in.
Make him feel needed.
I understand independent women, and you don't need a man in your life to thrive. But here's the thing, men love to feel needed. It's as if it's encoded in their DNA. In fact, in the past, men were considered the providers of the family. Sure, you can change your tire, pay your bills and even take out the trash, but that doesn't necessarily mean 'you have to.'You've probably been accustomed to doing everything around the house. But the next time you need to move the cabinet or kill a spider, ask your man for help. That will give him purpose and also give you the chance to lean on someone else for help. That's it! It doesn't have to be complicated.
Compliment him when he deserves it.
Let's be clear here-I'm not saying you should kiss the guy's ass all the time. But a few compliments here and there will do. If you think that he looks hot in that shirt, tell him. It won't hurt anyone.Most of us do not compliment other people even when they look fantastic. And sure enough, men love compliments. The next time, the guy will stop by your place wearing his favorite shirt to get a compliment from you. That should keep him wanting more compliments.
Admire his masculinity.
Another neat trick that should get to his heart is admiring his masculinity. But I'm not saying you go and squeeze his arms and faint every time-that's a bit extra! Masculinity is not always about muscles and testosterone. Instead, i t's about treating people kindly, being chivalrous, and also having a sense of honor. The real show of masculinity is being empathetic and vulnerable around people who matter. And that isa pure expression of how he will be towards his partner. Whatever character you admire in him, let him.That should spark an interesting dialogue that could potentially lead to a deeper connection between you two.
Tell him you are thinking of him.
Today, the rules are a bit different. You don't have to hide your intentions; well, at least, don't announce you have feelings for him yet. I know it's probably early to say anything like this to a person you are dating. But it should drive him in the right direction. All you have to do is tell him that you've beent hinking of him and let him move the conversation. Fingers crossed! At the end of that conversation, you should know more about his feelings.
When you want to make a man fall in love with you, it is essential to listen to him. Chances are, he will tell you what he needs you to do. Avoid making it a one-sided conversation. If you find yourself talking a lot when you are nervous, find ways to deal with it. Most ladies will make the mistake of speaking more than listening. Sometimes the same thing happens to men, but you should always try to listen to the other party.
Smile and Laugh.
Smiling and laughing when your guy crush tells a joke is probably one of the oldest tricks in the book.And funny thing, it's still as effective today as it was centuries ago. When talking to him, don't present an unfriendly face. Please make sure you are as comfortable around him as you would be around friends.Guys like women who laugh at their jokes, even if sometimes you don't get it. Tell him you enjoy histories. But truth be told, when you find the right person, he will always make you laugh and smile.However, remember not to overdo it because you will end up looking like a clown.
Take away message
In the end, what works when it comes to making a man fall in love with you faster is the same thing that works in a relationship and friendship. That includes being genuinely yourself, being confident, having a sense of humor, and making the other party feel special. Once he's noticed all these qualities in you, and still, he hasn't professed his love, then you can spark up the conversation. Without a doubt, it will not happen overnight. But eventually, with a bit of patience, if you two are compatible, you will likely be a couple. All you have to do is keep these tips in mind when talking to him.